toxic-relationships

I__ in love with my corporate girlfriend,with the Cyclops heart

When you notice someone does something toxic the first time, don't wait for the second time before you address it or cut them off. Many survivors are used to the "wait and see" tactic which only leaves them vulnerable to a second attack. As your boundaries get stronger, the wait time gets shorter. You never have justify your intuition.

If someone keeps bringing you down, perhaps it's time to get up and leave

Toxic relationships are dangerous to your health; they will literally kill you. Stress shortens your lifespan. Even a broken heart can kill you. There is an undeniable mind-body connection. Your arguments and hateful talk can land you in the emergency room or in the morgue. You were not meant to live in a fever of anxiety; screaming yourself hoarse in a frenzy of dreadful, panicked fight-or-flight that leaves you exhausted and numb with grief. You were not meant to live like animals tearing one another to shreds. Don't turn your hair gray. Don't carve a roadmap of pain into the sweet wrinkles on your face. Don't lay in the quiet with your heart pounding like a trapped, frightened creature. For your own precious and beautiful life, and for those around you _ seek help or get out before it is too late. This is your wake-up call!

The last thing I remember ia an exquisitely beautiful green and silver moth landing on the curve of my wrist. The sound of rain on the roof of our house gently pulls me toward consciousness. I fight to return to sleep though, wrapped in a warm cocoon of blankets, safe at home. I'm vaguely aware that my head aches. Possibly I have the flu and this is why I'm allowed to stay in bed, even though I can tell I've been asleep a long time. My mother's hand strokes my cheek and I don't push is away as I would in wakefulness, never wanting her to know how much I crave that gentle touch. How much I miss her even though I still don't trust her. Then there's a voice, the wrong voice, not my mother's and i'm scared.

Losing will not always amount to a loss, sometimes you have to lose those toxic relationships and bad habits to create a space for better things.

The people in your life will either help you shake hands with yourself or they__l teach you what you don__ want. Everyone, eventually, does one or the other. All pain transforms to learning. All love transforms to self-awareness.

The only relationships that exist are based on truth. Everything else is just a mutual and isolating delusion.

Toxic relationships are like a good pasta that has been overcooked.

I'm accustomed to toxicity and can__ control myself when I__ near it.

Everything has a price. The price, however, isn't always money.

There is no in between, we all have to touch our own bottom.

The end for us came with a knock on my window.

Unhappy people can be very dangerous, don't forget that.

You create more space in your life when you turn your excess baggage to garbage.

Fire False Friends as early as possible. Do it before they dig out the dream seeds you've planted! The earlier, the better; the quicker, the safer!

Forgiveness is a personal process that doesn__ depend on us having direct contact with the people who have hurt us.

My love is toxic and you're suicidal.