Robert Jensen

But too often men react to women in positions of power with misogyny, often in sexualized terms. I have heard men in such situations talk about how "I'd like to fuck that bitch and teach her a lesson," for example. That kind of reaction demonstrates that no matter what the class position of a man and woman, men can use the weapon of sexualized violence to attempt to assert their dominance.

Those four effects described above__haping a male-dominant view of sexuality, initiating victims, contributing to difficulty in separating sexual fantasy and reality, and providing a training manual for abusers__re at work just as much with men who have not engaged in activities that meet the legal definition of rape. Here we have to let go of a comforting illusion__hat there is some clear line between men who rape and men who don't, between the bad guys and the good guys.

Our goal should be not to redefine masculinity, but to abolish it.

I am afraid of sex as sex is defined by the dominant culture, as practiced all around me, and projected onto magazine pages, billboards, and movie screens. I am afraid of sex because I am afraid of domination, cruelty, violence, and death. I am afraid of sex because sex has hurt me and hurt lots of people I know, and because I have hurt others with sex in the past. I know that there are people out there who have been hurt by sex in ways that are beyond words, who have experienced a depth of pain that I will never fully understand. And I know there are people who are dead because of sex. Yes, I am afraid of sex. How could I not be?

Whiteness__he whole constellation of practices, beliefs, attitudes, emotions that are mixed up in being white__s the problem. Whiteness is degraded and depraved[_] To the degree that we accept any of the meaning that the dominant society gives to whiteness, we white people are degraded and depraved.

The world does not need white people to civilize others. The real White People's Burden is to civilize ourselves.

I could settle for being a man, or I could struggle to become a human being.