say-no-to-rape-jokes

Peace does not walk up to our doorsteps and press the calling bell! We have to go out there and search for it.

The fact is, rape is utterly commonplace in all our cultures. It is part of the fabric of everyday life, yet we all act as if it__ something shocking and extraordinary whenever it hits the headlines. We remain silent, and so we condone it_Until rape, and the structures _ sexism, inequality, tradition _ that make it possible, are part of our dinner-table conversation with the next generation, it will continue. Is it polite and comfortable to talk about it? No. Must we anyway? Yes.___o protect our children, we must talk to them about rape

Let__ talk about rape for a moment. Rape is not what George Lucas did to your childhood. Rape is not what happens when a sports team beats another sports team by a wide margin. Rape is not what happens when your electric bill is higher this month than it was last month. Rape is when a person violates another person in the most despicable, degrading way imaginable and among the myriad of terrible things humans can do to one another, rape is among the worst. I think the casual misappropriation of the concept of rape extending all the way to its widespread comical usage is disgusting even by Internet standards. Off my chest.

Jokes and media slurs about rape and its survivors not only desensitize the issue but also have an impact on rape conviction rates!"Widespread __yths and stereotypes_ about rape victims may give jurors __reconceived ideas_ that could affect their decisions in court. When victims were demonised in the media, you can see how juries would bring their preconceptions to bear."-Alison Saunders, head of the Crown Prosecution Service, UK.

The fact that rape threats are a thing says a lot about how rape isn't a lapse in self-control but often a tool to punish & control others.

Rape is so particularly traumatic and so meaningful in so many ways, that there__ something about using the word in other contexts that diminishes the reality of it, and the impact it has on women__ lives.

A man does not become a real man by showing his physical domination over women. A man becomes a real man by loving, respecting and protecting women.