saudi-women

I got a text from my husband. __anal, you are divorced,_ it read. __our papers are in the court of Khobar._ I was divorced in my absence, just as I had been married.

How odd it is that we judge a woman by her clothes and the place she eats lunch and the subjects she talks about with her colleagueson her coffee break, yet we don__ judge a man if he doesn__ grow his beard or if he works with women or speaks to them. Why do Saudi women allow subjugation to a man and adhere to men__ rules and conditions? Why did I?

I was lonely, desperate, and angry. At that moment, I truly understood what it meant to be a Saudi woman. It meant being confronted with every possible kind ofobstacle and discrimination. It meant being told that if you want to race with men, you__ have to do it with your hands and legs cut off. I started to wish I had been born somewhere__nywhere__lse.

So you__e the infamous Manal al-Sharif,_ he said, eyeing me from behind his desk. __ren__ you ashamed of what you did?___s driving a car something shameful?_ I answered back.

It is an amazing contradiction: a society that frowns on a woman going out without a man; that forces you to use separate entrances for universities, banks, restaurants, and mosques; that divides restaurants with partitions so that unrelated males and females cannot sit together; that same society expects you to get into a car with a man who is not your relative, with a man who is a complete stranger, by yourself and have him take you somewhere inside a locked car, alone.

How beautiful it is to live in a world with no walls.

We were like captive animals that had lost the will to fight. We even went so far as to defend the very constraints that they hadimposed upon us.

She took my papers, the papers that had followed me from the Khobar police station to jail, and pointed at a place where I was supposed to sign. On the paper there was a line for charges. In the blank space, someone had written __riving while female.

Because my mother couldn't change my present, I decided to change my daughter's future