relationships-101

If you have to be told how you should feel then those feelings are not strong enough to make you feel alive; they become rules that don__ fit your life script. Not every person will place the same importance as you do on one of the six human needs: certainty, variety, significance, connection/love, growth or contributions. When you know what is most important for yourself and learn to recognize what need is the most important to others, then you can begin to unlock the real reason behind conflict.

Any woman has the power to be truly happy, with or without a man.

Choosing a mate is not a matter of can they do the job, rather will they. A partner of "potential" doesn't make for a happy marriage. Their actions have to be in line with your needs.

Love is the only tyrant whose reign is sweet.

Quiet love is better than loud hate.

Religious guilt will never grow the kind of love you want in someone.

At first the brain weighs a potential partner, and if the partner fits our ancestral wish list, we get a spike in the release of sex chemicals that makes us dizzy with a rush of unavoidable infatuation. It's the first step down the primeval path of pair-bonding.

You will know you are in love when it doesn't matter if you sit in heaven or hell with that special someone just as long as they can make you laugh, while you put out the fires.

The bitterest fruit tastes sweet when you share it with someone you love.

There are many fish in the sea, but never let a good one swim away.

If you stand in the way of two people who were meant to be together, destiny's train will run you over.

You can spend the rest of your life fighting to be respected, accepted and understood by the people you have created a life with or you can start living a life where that isn't a daily goal and ambition in your relationship.

Great sex and awesome food is what conquered the beast, not beauty. The key to happiness is to fuck like a porn star and cook like a five star chef.

If you are hurting because they hurt then they are the ONE.

The purpose of any healthy relationship is to find someone that will magnify your life's experiences, not tolerate it or become a spectator of it.

For, what is the purpose of true love, other than to rescue another from one's self? Why is that not the first thing we look for?

Inside of you is your love, not beside you. She is just there to remind you of where you placed her heart.

Timing is only lack of enough emotions.