relationships-101

Two married partners do not just live with each other, they live in each other, neurologically speaking.

Cheating in relationship is a sign of self-regulation failure. When it happens ones, it is a mistake. When it happens twice, it is unfortunate. But when it happens thrice or more, it is a pattern indicating primitive, uncivilized inhuman behavior.

Sex becomes less and less pleasurable in a relationship over time. Your brain gets habituated to the sensual stimulation from your specific partner as you are exposed to it repeatedly. It doesn__ mean that the love is gone from the relationship. Love still exists beyond the barriers of time, in the form of attachment, which becomes independent of sexual intimacy after the euphoric stage of mad love.

Staying in an unhealthy relationship that robs you of peace of mind, is not being loyal. It is choosing to hurt yourself mentally, emotionally and sometimes, physically.

Compatibility doesn't determine the fate of a marriage, how you deal with the incompatibilities, does.

So, you want to be in a relationship and you__e tired of being single, right? But let me ask you an important question: Do you have a healthy relationship with yourself? I get it! Everybody wants to be in love and feel loved, but trust me, SELF-LOVE is far more important. How is YOUR mind, YOUR body, YOUR spirit? Listen, it__ okay to be single! You may not want to be single, but sometimes it__ best. Learn to commit to yourself, first. Be good to yourself, take care of yourself, and love yourself! You__e got to like and love who YOU are before you can give your very best to that special someone. Don__ be in a rush and don__ be desperate. Work on yourself first and be at peace.

A fulfilling long-term relationship is not accomplished by just finding the one. It is rather a co-operation between two passionate and highly motivated partners working together, figuring out every single situation holding hands. If there is trust at the root of the relationship, if the partners make an effort to keep it interesting, if difficulties are handled tactfully and if you can appreciate every single deed of your partner no matter how insignificant it is, the flames of love would never burn out and your love can truly live happily ever after.

Don__ ruin your life over somebody else__ foolishness. If they want to leave, let them leave! Manipulating, begging, or coercing someone to stay with you is an insult to SELF. Have confidence in yourself! Know your worth! Take a stand for YOU. You deserve to be loved, respected, and appreciated by someone who__ genuinely in love with you. It may hurt to let go, but trying to force someone to stay with you is more damaging than you realize. It__ VERY unhealthy. Set Yourself Free! Be a Priority to Yourself!

In relationships, everyone makes mistakes. If you are forgiven for yours, don't take it for granted.

It really is quite simple. All women really want is to be needed, valued and loved above anyone else and they will make you a keeper. It's your actions she is paying attention to, not your words.

Marriage is the beginning of love for your spouse, not the result of it.

A closed fist cannot give. How can one give when the fist is closed? Yet, most people approach relationships with a closed heart. How can one give love when the heart is closed?

Don't ask too much for space. They grow into voids.

Somewhere between love and hate lies confusion, misunderstanding and desperate hope.

When a man plays with your heart it is for one of two reasons: He knows he can or he is undecided.

Either, you are in love with someone or you're not. Fear is complicated, not love.

People meant to be together will always take detours through pain, misunderstanding and pride, but some how they always drift back to the one thing that makes them feel alive.

If God had a wife He would be in just as much trouble as any man.