red-flags

Red flags are moments of hesitation that determine our destination.

If something on the inside is telling you that someone isn__ right for you, they__e NOT right for you, no matter how great they might look on paper. When it__ right for you, you will know. And when it__ not _ it__ time to go.

Too much twee emotional expression--too many claims like, "Everything is awesome," or "I just never really feel angry or upset," or "If you're just positive, you can turn that frown upside down,"--often masks real pain and hurt. These behaviors are as much red flags as brooding and anger are....Being all light is as dangerous as being all dark, simply because denial of emotion is what feeds the dark.

How do you know they aren't the one? At the first sight of total disregard for your hurt, your gut will feel uneasy. I'm reminding you to listen up.

If you ignore the red flags, embrace the heartache to come.

The red flags are usually there, you just have to keep your eyes open wider than your heart.

Like caterpillars our metamorphosis begins with what comes from our mouth. Caterpillars spin silk cocoons from the mouth. We speak life or death, success or failure. All transformation starts with what comes from our mouth.

Somehow, it bothered her watching Garth__ charm directed so effectively at another. Could he convince her so easily of an untruth?

It may be expedient to take stock of all the affecting pieces that might shatter in the wake of an emotional earthquake, once red flags come up in a committed relationship and an overarching scene has to be fashioned for a recast life experience. ("Waiting for the pieces to fall into place")