advice-to-men

My friend Wicker once said to be careful what and how you say what you__e really thinking to a woman. After much screwing up in that department with Emma, I__e learned it__ not what you should hide, but what you say that makes her react the way she does. If I am unable to make myself clear, as I so often do, it__ more likely going to go to pot if I try to explain how I really feel. Instead, I rework in my brain what she needs to hear. I don__ always nail it, but I__ getting better at it. And it__ always the truth even if it isn__ how I see it.Is it deceiving? No. It__ being considerate and aware that she is an emotional creature, and that for some crazy reason, craves my attention. I love to make her happy. My jumbled up mess of a mind isn__ important in the long run if it just confuses her. So I chose words carefully. When something goes right, I use it over and over again. -Ames