advice

Stay cool, and wait for opportunity.

Don't go to the circus.

Life is about the people we meet, and the experiences we have along the way.

I speak less because my words are precious and my advices are priceless.

Let me give you a bit of advice.' the girl said bitterly, 'from one working girl to another; life isn't easy, no matter where you are. You'll make choices you think are right and then suffer for them.' Those remarkable eyes flickered. 'So if you're going to be miserable, you might as well go to Antica and be miserable in the shadow of the Torre Cesme.

... I will say this. Marriage is work. It's hard work. Harder than anything else you'll ever do. Believe me, I know. And do you want to know why?' James nodded and Ben Latrobe leaned forward as if to impart a deep, mysterious secret. 'Because marriage isn't about the wedding or the wedding trip afterward. It isn't about cozy nights spent in each other's arms or the way she makes you feel when she smiles. Oh, those things all have a part in it, but a very minor one. No, James, marriage is about sticking it out when it isn't so nice. Marriage is being there to pick up the pieces when your perfect world falls apart. It's seeing the mess you've made of things and being willing to work through it until you have created something better than you had before. It's listening to her fears, her troubles, and concerns. It's eating meals that don't taste as good as those your mother fixed, enduring her temperamental outburts and tears, and not giving up when things get hard.' Latrobe paused for a moment and a frown lined his face where the smile had been only moments before. 'True love is standing by your mate when his health fails, along with his business.' ... 'It's knowing that the world goes on and you can depend on each other even when everything else around you lies in ruins at your feet...

sometimes you gotta Run before you can Walk.

At last the gardener arrived, mumbling something about rascals and country bumpkins, and took me out into the park, giving me a lengthy lecture as he did so. I was instructed to be sober and industrious, and not to wander about aimlessly or waste my time in unproductive activities: if I heeded this counsel, he said, I might in time achieve something. He gave me much other useful and well-phrased advice too, but I have since forgotten almost all of it.

If you think someone is humble, never tell them so. You will unknowingly rob them of the very thing you admire.

Take it from an old cadaver. Let go of the past.

The only people that should be in your life are ones that make you smile.

You will never find the perfect person but you might be lucky enough to find someone who wants to be.

Electricity, shelter, and a safe place to sleep . . .trump the need to preserve your credit score, orpurchase a new gizmo.

She's an old soldier's woman, and she has antennae for things that often escape the officer in the field.

To make matters worse, everyone she talks to has a different opinion about the nature of his problem and what she should do about it. Her clergyperson may tell her, __ove heals all difficulties. Give him your heart fully, and he will find the spirit of God._ Her therapist speaks a different language, saying, __e triggers strong reactions in you because he reminds you of your father, and you set things off in him because of his relationship with his mother. You each need to work on not pushing each other__ buttons._ A recovering alcoholic friend tells her, __e__ a rage addict. He controls you because he is terrified of his own fears. You need to get him into a twelve-step program._ Her brother may say to her, __e__ a good guy. I know he loses his temper with you sometimes__e does have a short fuse__ut you__e no prize yourself with that mouth of yours. You two need to work it out, for the good of the children._ And then, to crown her increasing confusion, she may hear from her mother, or her child__ schoolteacher, or her best friend: __e__ mean and crazy, and he__l never change. All he wants is to hurt you. Leave him now before he does something even worse._ All of these people are trying to help, and they are all talking about the same abuser. But he looks different from each angle of view.

It does not take God one second to re-write your ugly past .

But Little League can be a great experience for kids, as long as they want to play--and don't play to bring their parents glory.

Always know what they want to hear - not just what everyone knew they wanted to hear but what they didn't even dare name to themselves. Show them the pattern. Give them permission to do what they wanted all along.