Eeva Lancaster

Who am I, when all I__e ever believed myself to be, is fading before my very eyes?Am I still me, or just a shadow of what I used to be?Was I just an illusion that lived only in my head?Did I paint myself as something more than I really am?And with all these changes in my life_ What will be left of the woman who dreamed her dreams?When all the colors that she wrapped herself with_ are slowly being stripped away_Copyright © Eeva Lancaster

True Love_ it__ the most wonderful human emotion and one of the most elusive. We search for it, trying to find that one person in the whole world worthy enough to spend our lives with. When you look at the trail of broken hearts, the rivers of tears and the broken dreams, it__ quite obvious that it__ not an easy dream to achieve. Don__ we rightly call it the Quest for Love? That__ why when we think we__e found the right person, we are giddy with happiness and relief. Finally! The answer to our prayers has come after such a long wait. We are safe. We are loved.A lot of women view marriage this way and I blame that on all the Walt Disney cartoons we watched as little girls. There__ this beautiful helpless princess locked away in a castle and here comes this handsome prince to save her from her miserable life. Classic. Then, after the grand wedding ball, the movie ends with:__nd They Lived Happily Ever After.__hat__ it? What happened afterwards? Nothing__ mentioned about that. We are made to think that it all ends there, that the couple__ happiness is secured and a given. They love each other, right? They went through all that trouble just to be together. So they__l be happy. End of story.

Failed expectations ruin marriages and kills love in the process. You and your partner deserve to know what you__e both getting into_ and knowing now is better than later. .

Don't be afraid of Pain. Pain only comes down to a certain point... beyond that, it can't reach you and the love you have inside.