Pay attention to your dreams; when you go on a trip, in your dreams you will still be home. Then after you've come home you'll dream of where you were. It's a kind of jet lag of the consciousness.
The substance of grief is not imaginary. It's as real as rope or the absence of air, and like both those things it can kill.
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The substance of grief is not imaginary. It's as real as rope or the absence of air, and like both those things it can kill.
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