whim

Of all modern notions, the worst is this: that domesticity is dull. Inside the home, they say, is dead decorum and routine; outside is adventure and variety. But the truth is that the home is the only place of liberty, the only spot on earth where a man can alter arrangements suddenly, make an experiment or indulge in a whim. The home is not the one tame place in a world of adventure; it is the one wild place in a world of rules and set tasks.

Paradise is no whim.It takes time and trust,You see.

Instead of a feeling, think of love as an action. The feeling of love comes and goes on a whim; you can__ control it. But the action of love is something you can do, regardless of how you are feeling.