transactional-relationships

When you are not needed, you are not needed. Period!

Let's accept it that we remember people only when we have some work and only our Mother_ remembers us and calls us for no reason, just to know how we are doing!

Only love that continues to flow in the face of anger, blame, and indifference can be called love. All else is simply a transaction.

Janet Malcolm had famously described journalism as the art of seduction and betrayal. Any reporter who didn't see journalism as "morally indefensible" was either "too stupid" or "too full of himself," she wrote. I disagreed. Without shutting the door on the possibility that I was both stupid and full of myself, I'd never bought into the seduction and betrayal conceit. At most, journalism - particularly when writing about media-hungry public figures - was like the seduction of a prostitute. The relationship was transactional. They weren't talking to me because they liked me or because I impressed them; they were talking to me because they wanted the cover of Rolling Stone.