relationships-101

The only man worth having in your life is one that would never let you walk away.

Love is like breathing. You can't live without it.

Many people think less of a man if he cries because it supposedly shows a sign of weakness, but I beg to differ. A man that__ in touch with his feelings is absolutely beautiful! I admire, respect, and appreciate their braveness to be vulnerable. Crying is NOT a weakness. We cannot expect our men to be strong all of the time. That__ SO unfair! They have feelings, too. Don__ ever make a man feel less than just because he cries. Comfort, love, and support him. Show him that you genuinely care.

People that hold onto hate for so long do so because they want to avoid dealing with their pain. They falsely believe if they forgive they are letting their enemy believe they are a doormat. What they don__ understand is hatred can__ be isolated or turned off. It manifests in their health, choices and belief systems. Their values and religious beliefs make adjustments to justify their negative emotions. Not unlike malware infesting a hard drive, their spirit slowly becomes corrupted and they make choices that don__ make logical sense to others. Hatred left unaddressed will crash a person__ spirit. The only thing he or she can do is to reboot, by fixing him or herself, not others. This might require installing a firewall of boundaries or parental controls on their emotions. Regardless of the approach, we are all connected on this "network of life" and each of us is responsible for cleaning up our spiritual registry.

Bitter love is better than sweet hate.

If kindness wins, accountability rules.

Our primitive ancestors learnt various behavioral characteristics like jealousy, possessiveness and aggression to ensure the survival of their wild love life in the harsh environment of Mother Nature. And all those behavioral responses eventually got engraved in our genetic blueprint. So, these are not the enemies in the path of a healthy relationship, rather when utilized properly they can even kindle the spark in a dying relationship.

All women desire one simple quality in their partner, which is understanding.

First law of pleasurable love-making in the long run, is that you don't keep naked pictures of your partner on your phone.

You will finally have dignity when you realize that you are not on the path, but have become the path for others.

I waited for the seasons of love to pass from this cold winter to the summer heat I dreamed of.

Love is so many things, but it is not safe.

Don't talk yourself into falling in love with someone. Either, you are in love or you are not. True love is not a choice. It is something you know in your heart when all guilt, doubt and fear are removed.

Blame doesn't empower you. It keeps you stuck in a place you don't want to be because you don't want to make the temporary, but painful decision, to be responsible for the outcome of your own life's happiness.

Having dignity doesn't require you to fall out of love with someone. You can love someone your entire life and not been in their life. It simply means you won't allow their actions or inactions to guide your future. The moment you feel derailed from your life purpose, in limbo or have to sell your worth, you have crossed over from love to desperation.

Don't burn your bridges until you build better ones.

Love that causes you pain is better than hate that brings you pleasure.

Walking towards love is wiser than falling into it.