healing-the-past

Generally the rational brain can override the emotional brain, as long as our fears don__ hijack us. (For example, your fear at being flagged down by the police can turn instantly to gratitude when the cop warns you that there__ an accident ahead.) But the moment we feel trapped, enraged, or rejected, we are vulnerable to activating old maps and to follow their directions. Change begins when we learn to "own" our emotional brains. That means learning to observe and tolerate the heartbreaking and gut-wrenching sensations that register misery and humiliation. Only after learning to bear what is going on inside can we start to befriend, rather than obliterate, the emotions that keep our maps fixed and immutable.

The way to free your feelings is to simply feel them.

It's a funny thing about life, once you begin to take note of the things you are grateful for, you begin to lose sight of the things that you lack.