girls

I tried to push my body through his and completely disappear.

So much has been done to my body, and still, somehow, not enough.

A beautiful woman can have almost any man she wants. A rich man can have almost any woman he wants.

I lost my innocence very young and it had nothing to do with sex.

Girls, watch out for the bad guys!...there are those capable of showering their resources on you just to dance on top of you, and finally destroy your good image and reputation.

Sorry girls, not every man is running after what you think.

Herbenick invited me to sit in on the Human Sexuality class she was about to teach, one of the most popular courses on Indiana__ campus. She was, on that day, delivering a lecture on gender disparities in sexual satisfaction. More than one hundred fifty students were already seated in the classroom when we arrived, nearly all of them female, most dressed in sweats, their hair pulled into haphazard ponytails. They listened raptly as Herbenick explained the vastly different language young men and young women use when describing __ood sex._ __en are more likely to talk about pleasure, about orgasm,_ Herbenick said. __omen talk more about absence of pain. Thirty percent of female college students say they experience pain during their sexual encounters as opposed to five percent of men._ The rates of pain among women, she added, shoot up to 70 percent when anal sex is included. Until recently, anal sex was a relatively rare practice among young adults. But as it__ become disproportionately common in porn__nd the big payoff in R-rated fare such as Kingsman and The To Do List__t__ also on the rise in real life. In 1992 only 16 percent of women aged eighteen to twenty-four said they had tried anal sex. Today 20 percent of women eighteen to nineteen have, and by ages twenty to twenty-four it__ up to 40 percent. A 2014 study of heterosexuals sixteen to eighteen years old__nd can we pause for a moment to consider just how young that is?__ound that it was mainly boys who pushed for __ifth base,_ approaching it less as a form of intimacy with a partner (who they assumed would both need to be and could be coerced into it) than a competition with other boys. Girls were expected to endure the act, which they consistently reported as painful. Both sexes blamed that discomfort on the girls themselves, for being __aïve or flawed,_ unable to __elax._ Deborah Tolman has bluntly called anal __he new oral._ __ince all girls are now presumed to have oral sex in their repertoire,_ she said, __nal sex is becoming the new __ill she do it or not?_ behavior, the new __rove you love me.__ And still, she added, __irls_ sexual pleasure is not part of the equation._ According to Herbenick, the rise of anal sex places new pressures on young women to perform or else be labeled a prude. __t__ a metaphor, a symbol in one concrete behavior for the lack of education about sex, the normalization of female pain, and the way what had once been stigmatized has, over the course of a decade, become expected. If you don__ want to do it you__e suddenly not good enough, you__e frigid, you__e missing out, you__e not exploring your sexuality, you__e not adventurous.

All of them are the same type; girls with overprocessed hair and too much makeup and way too much access to Daddy__ credit cards. Girls who, if you took away the designer labels, hair dye and cover-up, wouldn__ be more than average-looking, but with all that stuff look too plastic to be pretty.

Several of the girls at the party had had sex, something which sounded appealing but only if it could happen with blindfolds in a time warp plus amnesia

A girl in a bikini is like having a loaded gun on your coffee table- There's nothing wrong with them, but it's hard to stop thinking about.

Your personal truth is your gift to the world.

It was all fine until the girls started drinking. (Everything is always fine up until that point.)

Your passions don__ have to connect to one another and no one needs to sign off on them. Passion isn__ logical_ it__ only the fuel which keeps our souls alive. Let it be that simple.

I could watch him do this until morning _ never asking questions and never interrupting his work. I worship quietly _ his intense focus and attention to detail and then, out of no where, I realize the inconvenient, inappropriate truth: __ love this man_ and it has swallowed me.

The people that truly love us in life don't fight for us to remain a doormat for others.

Although my road to writing seems like it may have come easily, there were a few bumps in that road. I didn__ get a lot of encouragement from friends, although my family were great supporters. I also had many_what you would call __ind-boggling_ moments, when I would doubt myself and what I was writing. It has been said that we, ourselves, are our own worst critics.All the hard work had payed off though, and I created a children__ book that I am proud of, and an unforgettable little girl that will touch the hearts of many._-Nina Jean Slack

you were born as an origional don't die as a copy

Maybe we can help. Where are you from? I've never seen you around here before. And, how did you get that cut? Where are you staying?_ He shook his head and giggled. __re you the police? You ask a lot of questions Phoenix._ __o. I just ... never mind._ I wanted to know more about him. The way those sparkly green eyes gazed at me. The way his dimples sunk deep into his cheeks, as he smiled and said my name with his deep voice.