big-sister

As girls, we will do anything for the person whom we love. We will scale buildings in the rain or run through fire if it means saving our love__ life. There is absolutely nothing more life altering that the fire burning inside of our souls for the one we want most_

How you spend your time when you are not working or studying says everything about who you are and what is motivating your life.

For most of us free-thinking, wild hearts, our relationship with God or the Universe will go through peaks and valleys _ transforming into new concepts and beliefs, completely disappearing, at times, only then to instantly explode back into existence by something even as small as a sunset!

Finding yourself and creating a life that feels authentic and safe is the hardest, most important work that we will ever do and for girls, especially young girls, there is no one more equipped to do this work.

You battled monsters. You sweat and cried your way to this one prolific moment where you finally realize that those dark days and sleepless nights were pre-requisites to your becoming.

I never want a girl to lose all hope that her life can__ completely turn around, even if she feels that she is at the edge, standing on one foot, and ready to say goodbye.

Sometimes you have to let go a little bit and travel the path of least resistance but this doesn__ mean that you quit when things get tough, as you are working towards a goal! It just means that you may only be able to see a rough draft of your final destination, right now, and that it__ safe to explore along the way.

Although many things may still need to happen before you identify what your exact work will be, I know that every single person whom you__e meeting and every experience that you__e having is necessary to you discovering your purpose. They are points on a map leading you to the moment where a match will finally be lit and you will be able to see through the darkness.

Remember, nothing happens before it__ supposed to, so trust that, as you are striving for authenticity and personal excellence, the recognition of your life__ purpose is nearing closer.

We live in a world where there is such a clear definition of what a girl should be that it takes almost no effort at all to completely hate ourselves.

Recognize that you have been chosen to be alive, right now, at this exact moment in time and know that none of that is random. There is something about you, your past or your future that is required at this exact moment in history. We need to know who you are and what you have been through.

I think it all basically breaks down to something like this: You have to look and feel great first. If you eat well, exercise and get enough sleep, you will have ample energy and the proper self-confidence to create and produce beyond your wildest dreams! Looking great and radiating positive energy, while presenting your highest quality work, is what will always make you the most valuable and only logical choice in whatever it is that you reach for.

The only way that you can identify and then fulfill your life__ purpose is for you to love yourself, charge up your life and serve the world.

Despite how lonely or broken down you might feel, we need you with us helping to make the world better, kinder and safer, especially for the little girls coming up.

Your passions don__ have to connect to one another and no one needs to sign off on them. Passion isn__ logical_ it__ only the fuel which keeps our souls alive. Let it be that simple.

Question.""Yes," Candace asked expectantly, eyes fixed on the dark street ahead."Have you ever had to chose sides between a friend and a boyfriend?"Candace nodded."Which side are you suppose to pick?""The right one.""What if they're both right?""They're not.""But they are," Melody insisted. "That's the problem.""No." Candace slowly rolled past a police cruiser. "They both think they're right. But who do you think is right? Which side represents the thing you think is worth fighting for?"Melody glanced out the window as though she was expecting the answer to be revealed on a neighbor's lawn. Every house except hers had the lights turned off. "I dunno.""You do," Candace insisted. "You just don't have the courage to be honest with yourself. Because then you'd have to do the thing you don't want to do, and you hate doing anything that's hard. Which is why you gave up singing and why you have no life and why you've always been a -""Um okay! Can we get back to the part where you were sounding like Oprah?""I'm just saying, Melly, what would you do if you weren't afraid? That's your answer. That's your side." She turned into the circular driveway and put the SUV in PARK. "And if you don't choose it, you're lying to yourself and everyone around you." She opened the door and grabbed her purse. "Oprah out!"The door slammed behind her.

Even if we try to conform to ideals and strive for perfection, we will always be pulled back to our core identity because it__ the path of least resistance for our souls _ an energy force that wants nothing more than for us to honor and accept who we are and discover what we__e meant to do in the world.

Can you identify the source preventing you from feeling good every single day, from loving yourself unconditionally and making your dreams come true? Is it a voice in your head or a gut wrenching ache that compromises your inner peace and doesn__ allow you to accept the love around you? Is there one thing, or maybe many things, keeping you from forgiving your past and moving forward, tormenting you with lies like __ou don__ deserve real love so just settle for whatever you can get,_ __ou__e not smart enough to achieve your dream so don__ even try,_ or __ook at your past_ you should hate yourself way more than you actually do!_?Welcome to your Little Monster.