get-over-it

I cannot stand the words Get over it. All of us are under such pressure to put our problems in the past tense. Slow down. Don__ allow others to hurry your healing. It is a process, one that may take years, occasionally, even a lifetime _ and that__ OK.

When you spend time worrying, you__e simply using your imagination to create things you don__ want.

Victims are members of society whose problems represent the memory of suffering, rage, and pain in a world that longs to forget.

The most compassionate and peaceful thing you can do for yourself and others is to let go of the past, let go of the anger, let go of trying to hurt people that wronged you. There are thousands of people dying from cancer that wish they had someone to care about them and be with them during their final days. There are children being sold into sex trafficking and are hoping someone would rescue them. There are homeless people that wish they had something warm to wear or eat. There is an entire species being wiped out because not enough people care about our oceans. Today, remember that there is someone praying for the very things you take for granted. Spend your effort where God needs you to be--on the front lines of the war on earth, not on the battlefields of the past.

Once you embrace your value, talents and strengths, it neutralizes when others think less of you.

He__ becoming useless. Worse than useless,_ Sam said. Then, relenting, he said, __e__l get past it.___ou mean you and Quinn?___eah.__strid considered just keeping her mouth shut, not pushing it. But this was a talk she needed to have with Sam sooner or later. __ don__ think he__ going to get over it.___ou don__ know him that well.___e__ jealous of you.___ell, of course I am so terribly handsome,_ Sam said, straining to make a joke of it.__e__ one kind of person, you__e another. When life is going along normally, you__e sort of the same. But when life turns strange and scary, when there__ a crisis, suddenly you__e completely different people. It__ not Quinn__ fault, really, but he__ not brave. He__ not strong. You are.

We don't go back to wallow, we go back to undo the lies that are back there that are holding its captive from living a wondrous and full life.

I don't damsel well. Distress, I can do. Damseling? Not so much.