fullfillment

To live and love is a great fulfillment.

It__ all about reprogramming our minds to focus more on what brings us joy.

confident: have no fans... only flames.

Life is ever reaching for strength, vitality, survival and the fulfillment of perpetuating its inherent message of continuance.

More often than not, people who are obsessed with their desires and feelings are generally unhappier in life vs. people that refocus their attention on service to others or a righteous cause. Have you ever heard someone say their life sucked because they fed the homeless? Made their children laugh? Or, bought a toy for a needy child at Christmas time?

You need to get out of your nest in order to fly.

It's nice to begin each day with an open mind but a wonderful fulfillment will come with an open heart.

We must seek out that which invigorates us, and engage it at all fronts. Art, music, literature, conversation, travel, nature__hatever it is that keeps the fire of our spirit bright__e must build our life around it; for, without our passions, the years ahead become a burden rather than a gift.

Fulfilled desires, like pleasures (even of the intrinsic kind), are states of achievement rather than default states. For instance, one has to work at satiating oneself, while hunger comes naturally. After one has eaten or taken liquid, bowel and bladder discomfort ensues quite naturally and we have to seek relief. One has to seek out pleasurable sensations, in the absence of which blandness comes naturally. The upshot of this is that we must continually work at keeping suffering (including tedium) at bay, and we can do so only imperfectly. Dissatisfaction does and must pervade life. There are moments, perhaps even periods, of satisfaction, but they occur against a background of dissatisfied striving. Pollyannaism may cause most people to blur out this background, but it remains there.

Only an unsatisfied preference is bad. In other words, he argues that although it is good to have fulfilled whatever desires one might have, one is not better off having a fulfilled desire than having no desire at all. By way of example, consider the case in which we __aint the tree nearest to Sydney Opera house red and give Kate a pill that makes her wish that the tree nearest to Sydney Opera House were red_*. Professor Fehige plausibly denies that we do Kate any favour in doing this. She is no better off than had we done nothing. What matters is not that people have satisfied desires but that they do not have unsatisfied ones. It is the avoidance of frustration that is important.* Fehige, Christoph, __ Pareto Principle for Possible People_, 513_14.