breakups

He cared less, so they cared more. He said it was beautiful. I knew he was broken.This was his game.

Love does not leave, it grows and transforms into something different.

Some people are meant to frame your destiny but not reach the destined destination with you.

All through their relationship, Harry was the one in charge, Harry was the one who gave them direction. This wasn__ because Harry was smarter or even better at it than Craig was; it just meant more to him, to be in control. And Craig didn__ really care, so he ceded it away. He liked not being responsible all the time.Complacency. Craig realizes now that this was complacency. One of the reasons he liked the sound of Harry__ voice was because it meant he didn__ have to use his own. But eventually this strategy backfired. Eventually Harry realized what was happening, and didn__ feel right about it. He wanted Craig to fight a little more, but by the time Craig started fighting for them to stay together, he had already lost.

Hold on, and dont put us on hold

We make the journey back to extraordinary love much more difficult for ourselves when we jump back in too quickly. It creates emotional chaos instead of the escape from pain we were hoping for.

Love sucks sometimes. It can stretch you beyond what you feel you can endure. But you can, and you must get back to love and living!

Relationships are like broken glass. Sometimes it__ better to leave them broken than hurt yourself trying to put the pieces back together

If love was absent, you would not feel disappointed; you would feel indifferent.

When things are falling apart, know they are actually falling into place.

When I no longer have your heartI will not request your bodyyour presenceor even your polite conversation.I will go away to a far countryseparated from you by the sea_ on which I cannot walk __nd refrain even from sendinglettersdescribing my pain.

There__ a universalunderstanding betweenmen of the silent sorrowa man endures whenhe loses a woman heloves

We have already said more goodbyes than are necessary. Those were goodbyes that brought about the end of partings. We taught each other that no parting is possible.

Her silence should be feared more than her words.

After one my breakups, my former girlfriend said we have misunderstandings. We never had. It's just that I was living for the future while she was living for the tomorrow. I couldn't wait for someone unwilling to grow up and able to keep only short term promises.

I am a diamond in the rut. A diamond to an untrained eye looks like a rock stone. So men will kick it around on the ground. It takes a man with an expert eye for fine Jewelry to notice its worth. Do not feel bad when men treat you like the little boys in Africa who gave away stones in exchange for candy. The hungry boys thought they were getting something better but had exchange wealth for a sugar high. Some men will do that. Exchange a valuable woman for the transient high of another. The boys didn't know better and so do some of these men. They don't know your worth.

It's disconcerting to realize how little you have to say to someone who once occupied such a prominent place in your bed.

She knew how breakups went from hearing other girls complain about them. First the pulling away, the gradual refusal to return notes or phone calls. The vague messages saying nothing was wrong, that the other person just needed a little space. Then the speech about how "It's not you, it's me." Then the crying part.She'd never thought any of that would apply to her and Jace. What they had wasn't ordinary, or subject to the ordinary rules of relationships and breakups. They belonged to each other totally, and always will, and that was that.But maybe everyone felt that way? Until the moment they realized they were just like everyone else, and everyone they'd thought was real shattered apart.