What if the differences between social strata stem not from genomics or inherent xcellence or even dollars, but merely differences in knowledge? Would this not mean the whole Pyramid is built on shifting sands?" I speculated such a suggestion could be seen as a serious deviancy. Melphi seemed delited. "Try this for deviancy: fabricants are mirrors held up to purebloods' consciences; what purebloods see reflected there sickens them. So they blame you for holding up the mirror." I hid my shock by asking when purebloods might blame themselves. Melphi relplied, "History suggests, not until they are made to.
The trick to realize that the boys who talk so much about being rejected that it seems like the__e proud of it aren__ necessarily sweeter or more sensitive than the Bababooey-spouting frat bullies who line up at clubs like SkyBar to run game on girls they want to date rape. There are plenty of nerds who fear women and aren__ sensitive, despite their marketing; they just dislike women in a new, exciting way. Timid racists aren__ sensitive because they lock their car doors when they see a black person on the street. They__e just too scared to get out of the car and shout the ___ word. Fear can be the result of admiration, or it can be a symptom of contempt. When I see squeamish guys passing over qualified women when they__e hiring for a job, or becoming tongue tied when a girl crashes their all-boy conversation at a party, I don__ give them credit for being awestruck. They__e reacting to the intimidating female as an intruder, an alien, and somebody they can__ relate to. It__ not a compliment to be made invisible.
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The trick to realize that the boys who talk so much about being rejected that it seems like the__e proud of it aren__ necessarily sweeter or more sensitive than the Bababooey-spouting frat bullies who line up at clubs like SkyBar to run game on girls they want to date rape. There are plenty of nerds who fear women and aren__ sensitive, despite their marketing; they just dislike women in a new, exciting way. Timid racists aren__ sensitive because they lock their car doors when they see a black person on the street. They__e just too scared to get out of the car and shout the ___ word. Fear can be the result of admiration, or it can be a symptom of contempt. When I see squeamish guys passing over qualified women when they__e hiring for a job, or becoming tongue tied when a girl crashes their all-boy conversation at a party, I don__ give them credit for being awestruck. They__e reacting to the intimidating female as an intruder, an alien, and somebody they can__ relate to. It__ not a compliment to be made invisible.
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