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Unfortunately in this world of ours, each person views things through a certain medium, which prevents his seeing them in the same light as others_
Alexandre Dumas The Count of Monte Cristo
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Unfortunately in this world of ours, each person views things through a certain medium, which prevents his seeing them in the same light as others_
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The Count of Monte Cristo

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