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From my distance the loss was theoretical, and though I couldn__ have said so, I preferred it that way. I felt relieved to be so far away, because I was excused from grieving. I felt nothing but tenderness for her, but there was an emotional emancipation to being here and not there. Even though I didn__ believe in God or heaven, I could childishly go on believing that she was still around. When it happened, the specific timing of my grandmother__ death seemed like a footnote: She died just after I went away. But a lesson would persist as I formed and unformed long-distance relationships over the years. Going away could free you from feeling too much.
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From my distance the loss was theoretical, and though I couldn__ have said so, I preferred it that way. I felt relieved to be so far away, because I was excused from grieving. I felt nothing but tenderness for her, but there was an emotional emancipation to being here and not there. Even though I didn__ believe in God or heaven, I could childishly go on believing that she was still around. When it happened, the specific timing of my grandmother__ death seemed like a footnote: She died just after I went away. But a lesson would persist as I formed and unformed long-distance relationships over the years. Going away could free you from feeling too much.

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