When life is a horror....Don't look like a ghost!
Whether we forget something we are not proud of, or embellish it, or blame somebody else, we want to save face by not owning up to shortcomings.
Neurosis and Human Growth: The Struggle Towards Self-Realization
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Whether we forget something we are not proud of, or embellish it, or blame somebody else, we want to save face by not owning up to shortcomings.
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