And there is my payment the rubies in your cheeks. Are you properly scandalized by your wicked behavior? If you were Catholic, you'd singe the ears of the priest you confessed to. Do you remember making me swear to repeat all those naughty actions agian, no matter what you said this morning?" Now that he brought it up, I did recall saying that. Great Betrayed by my own immorality. "God, Bones...some of that was depraved." "I'll take that as a compliment." He closed the distance between us."I love you. Don't be ashamed of anything we did, even if your prudery is on life support.
It__ crucial to practice self-empathy, for trust can__ be willed into existence. That didn__ work when our caregivers tried to impose their will on us, and it won__ work internally, either. Only when we can tap into a place of self-trust, with a reliable process of reparation for inevitable mistakes, can we build trust with another person.
Mirror of Intimacy: Daily Reflections on Emotional and Erotic Intelligence
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It__ crucial to practice self-empathy, for trust can__ be willed into existence. That didn__ work when our caregivers tried to impose their will on us, and it won__ work internally, either. Only when we can tap into a place of self-trust, with a reliable process of reparation for inevitable mistakes, can we build trust with another person.
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