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Consciously and unconsciously, intentionally and involuntarily, willfully and unsuspectingly, our beliefs are the sum total of our lives. It's that simple.
Patty Houser A Woman's Guide to Knowing What You Believe: How to Love God With Your Heart and Your Mind
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Consciously and unconsciously, intentionally and involuntarily, willfully and unsuspectingly, our beliefs are the sum total of our lives. It's that simple.
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Patty Houser

A Woman's Guide to Knowing What You Believe: How to Love God With Your Heart and Your Mind

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