stephanie-lahart

This FEMINIST Goes Hard.

Do what makes YOU happy. Focus on what brings YOU joy. Appreciate and do more things that make YOU smile. Live your life for yourself. You matter! You count! You__e deserving of true happiness! This is YOUR life. Live it to the fullest! Live life with no regrets.

They said that you would never make it, but you did. They said that you would quit, but you persevered and fought through every obstacle that came your way. They said that you didn__ have what it takes, but you proved them ALL wrong. Not only do you have success, but you have peace and joy within. You never compromised your character and you tackled everything with dignity. You didn__ allow any challenges to discourage you, because you knew all along that there was a winner in you. You doubted yourself at times, but you didn__ allow anything or anybody to keep you down. You made it! Be proud of your accomplishments! Enjoy all of the benefits from your hard work and dedication!

Replace the word can__ with can. Know that you can, believe that you can, and know with ALL of your heart that you will. You will succeed in spite of any obstacles that may try to hinder you! There__ so much power in having a positive attitude, positive mindset, and positive outlook.

Stop focusing on your past mistakes. Don__ be ashamed of the things that you__e done. We ALL have made mistakes. Don__ you see? All of those things helped shape you into the beautiful person that you are today! Hold your head up high because you didn__ allow your past mistakes to consume you. You learned! You conquered! You became a better YOU. Be proud of who you are TODAY!

I don__ mind failing because that means I__ trying. But giving up, now that__ something that I__ just not willing to do. I will continue to try and try again. I will keep my peace, stay focused, and know that my time will come. My positive attitude will not depart me. I will hold it close and keep on striving, knowing that what__ meant for me, will be. Nothing and nobody can stop it! My dedication and hard work won__ fail me, but most importantly, I won__ fail myself. I__ a winner and I__ a fighter! I don__ allow challenges to stop me.

Your attitude can either be your best friend who has your best interest at heart or your worst enemy who wants to see you fail, destroy your life, and be miserably unhappy. It__ imperative that you check your attitude. Make sure that your attitude is working for you, not against you. There__ limitless value in having a positive, empowered, and optimistic attitude! Choose wisely which attitude you give life to.

Stand tall and face YOUR truth. Speak boldly and be confident in what you say. Don't just dream, but take the steps to get where you want to be. Stay motivated, determined, and focused because YOU are worth it! Giving up is NOT an option. Keep your eyes on what matters and what's truly important.

Black Girls_ Don__ be afraid to use your voice. Your thoughts, opinions, and ideas are just as important as anybody else__. When you speak, speak with boldness and purpose. Have courage, be confident, and always be true to yourself! Live your life fearlessly! Your voice has GREAT power; don__ be afraid to utilize it when needed. You__e NOT an angry Black woman; you__e a woman who has something important to say. Your voice matters and so do YOU.

Black Girls_ Naturally resilient! We persevere, stand tall, and fight to the end. We don__ give up! We make moves and succeed. We__e go-getters by nature. We are stronger than most. We are unstoppable! Fearless and confident in our capabilities. WE are Black Girl Strong! #Incomparable

Black Girls_ Beautiful in EVERY shade and size. We__e got that special something! Our melanin is exquisitely beautiful! Love & embrace the skin that you__e in. Our skin tones represent beauty. Light, brown, and dark skinned girls are equally gorgeous!

Black Girls_ Always believe in yourself, even if nobody else does! Sometimes in life, you won__ always get the encouragement and support that you desire, but don__ allow that to stop you from accomplishing YOUR dreams. You__e got to learn how to encourage yourself and be happy for yourself in spite of. Everybody won__ be happy for you, and that__ okay. Be happy for yourself and always see the best in yourself! Do it for YOU. Don__ focus on the negative. Negativity is only a distraction. Stay the course and stay focused! Be encouraged and do GREAT things. You__e got this!

Black Girls_ Strive to be a woman of substance! Don__ solely allow your big butt, thick thighs, wide hips, large breasts, and overall good looks to define you as a woman. Your looks alone shouldn__ define who you are. What more do you have to offer? What is your TRUE character? How is your attitude? What have you accomplished? Do you have respect for yourself? What do you represent? Everywhere you look, there__ another beautiful, stunning, fine looking sista. Stand out from the rest and dare to be different! Your good looks should only be a bonus, not the main factor. #RealTalk

Black Girls_ Always remember: It__ so easy, and it takes very little effort, to be like the next person. Don__ insult yourself like that. Be yourself! Walk YOUR walk. Talk YOUR talk. Be uniquely YOU in everything that you do. A confident woman who has a strong sense of self is quite beautiful. Allow your light to shine from the inside out. Self-love is the greatest love of all. Love, respect, and be good to yourself, first! You matter! You count! And you__e important, too!

Black Girls_ Stop settling for less than what you deserve. That__ why I stress self-love! There comes a time when you can no longer blame a man. You__e got to hold yourself accountable for the choices that you make. Choose wisely! Slow down. Pay attention. Don__ allow his good looks and swag to blind you from the truth. Don__ be so easily flattered by money, cars, jewelry, and all of that other stuff. Your heart and well-being is worth much more than that. Choose someone who respects, loves, and adores you. Somebody who has your best interest at heart. Nothing less! Allow yourself to experience REAL love. Stop giving your love, time, and attention to men who clearly don__ deserve it. #ItsAllUpToYou

Ladies! I encourage you NOT to be so easily flattered by what a man has. Be flattered by his strength, courage, integrity, and character as a man. Be impressed by his ability to be honest, faithful, loving, and respectful to you. Be impressed because he can communicate and openly express his feelings. Be impressed because he__ got confidence, direction, and purpose in his life. Be impressed because he__ a quality man, NOT a fine man. Real Talk!

Let today mark a new beginning for you. Give yourself permission to say NO without feeling guilty, mean, or selfish. Anybody who gets upset and/or expects you to say YES all of the time clearly doesn__ have your best interest at heart. Always remember: You have a right to say NO without having to explain yourself. Be at peace with your decisions.

Give yourself a break. Embrace and accept yourself for who YOU are. Love yourself and be kind to yourself. See the best in yourself! Be brave and have courage to be comfortable in your own skin. Knowing your self-worth is everything.