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There is a reason that the words natural, wholesome, and organic resonate throughout our culture today. Aim to be natural and truly who you are one-hundred percent of the time.

Authentic people are so comfortable in their own skins they make us more comfortable in our own.

She is so secure in her beautifully imperfect self that she would welcome you with open arms, no judgment, and complete acceptance.

As a young girl, I allowed my self-esteem to be determined by others_ opinions, and I devoted incredible energy tuning into how everyone else felt.

As a lifetime people pleaser, I remember trying to mold myself into the person I thought other people wanted me to be__ll for the sake of being liked and accepted. It caused more pain than gain.

When I meet someone who is truly genuine, I am drawn to their personality and find them easier to approach, engage, and interact with. They have no hint of false pretense, nor do I worry about hidden agendas.

Authentic people are instantly more likable and trustworthy, which makes building rapport with them a pleasure.

We've all met people who are beautiful on the outside, however, when they open their mouths to speak, they have nothing of substance to contribute.

Authenticity is the litmus test for the honesty, transparency, and trust which are necessary for healthy relationships.

The challenge of being authentic for people pleasers is that we really want people to like and accept us. Being vulnerable, however, requires that we come to terms with the fact that not everyone is going to like us, and that it is okay. Not everyone needs to like us.

Why did I think that the mask was a better portrayal than my authentic self? We can get hidden under layers of illusion, can__ we?

I am a recovering perfectionist, and like all in recovery, I do better some days than others!

Admittedly, there will be times when you must interact on a superficial level and adjust your behavior to fit in, go along and get along.

Sometimes we meet folks who appear rather plain, yet when they speak from a heart of service, love, compassion, and wisdom, they instantly become respected favorites.

Walking in alignment with your integrity will help you stay on the right track.

Interestingly, being yourself allows others to be themselves. Even with crazy imperfections, being a bona fide genuine person is the best any of us can be__essy flaws and all!

Allow your natural personality to shine through without pretending to be someone you're not, or you may be stuck with that label forever.

Do you generally feel uncomfortable around people whom you perceive to be perfect? Is there really such a thing as the perfect person? Of course not! Our flaws are often what differentiates us from each other, and no person is perfect.