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Falling in love is literally falling from your independence to let another control your life

Divorce is an expensive punishment love gets when it fails

At the beginning love is a fact, at the end it's a theory

Love is to give, commit, and trust completely; the courage to be vulnerable without the omniscience of another's virtue.

Love is always based on self-interest

Love starts having troubles when the brains encroaches on its territory

Love is a sweet dream until the hand of reality wakes you up

Love has its own eyes, and they are more efficient at the beginning and faulty at the end

Where love passes it leaves an indelible mark

Finding the one who loves you is like lottery but you don't have to close up the page, just keep on searching and you'll find.

Before you choose whom to love, take a look at yourself, choose your own word, think about how and reassess your time when you have given life to love, Know your ready or not and make sure you are not there to hurt making regrets on your door and paint the word I wish on your window.

Let her know that her look really works for you.

Describing our romantic longings in 'Life preserves,' therapist Harriet Lerner shares that most people want a partner 'who is mature and intelligent, loyal and trustworthy, loving and attentive, sensitive and open, kind and nurturant, competent and responsible.' No matter the intensity of this desire, she concludes: 'Few of us evaluate a prospective partner with the same objectivity and clarity that we might use to select a household appliance or a car.' To be capable of critically evaluating a partner we would need to be able to stand back and look critically at ourselves, at our needs, desires, and longings..... We fear that evaluating our needs and then carefully choosing partners will reveal that there is no one for us to love. Most of us prefer to have a partner who is lacking then no partner at all. What becomes apparent is that we may be more interested in finding a partner than in knowing love.

By the end of the date, your intentions should be clear.

Once you've charmed a girl and prove how mature and independent you are, just ask her out.

She'll be really impressed if you take control and let her follow your lead.

There is a constant conflict between What you're and What I think YOU ARE!

Better be a desperate single with many options than a sad married with no option.