law-of-attraction

What makes one person approachable and another one not? That simple difference alone can make or break your success in your life, in your relationships, and in your career.

The approachable individuals are the first ones that I introduce myself to because they make me feel emotionally safe.

Unfortunately, unapproachable leaders create a tense environment that may prevent their people from bringing their best strengths and talents or challenges and solutions forward.

There are new habits you can adopt starting NOW that make you approachable and encourage other people to engage with you.

An approachable person intuitively knows how to set new acquaintances at ease and create a safety net for them to be vulnerable and authentic.

When individuals feel comfortable approaching their leaders, their confidence to share ideas, discuss problems, and offer suggestions is strengthened. It emboldens them to take personal ownership and perform at higher levels within the organization.

Don't you love meeting an approachable person? They roll out the proverbial __elcome mat._ Their energy and engaging openness make us feel safe. They project the messages, __'m so glad to meet you. I like you. Tell me more about you. I'm so glad that you're here,_ without even saying a word.

Approachability is a crucial way of being that empowers you with an extraordinary edge to make a great first impression, invite interaction, build rapport, and win friends.

We are all gardeners, planting seeds of intention and watering them with attention in every moment of every day.

Guard your energy by setting boundaries, just saying 'no," and limiting your interactions with people who drain you. The measure__ow do they make you feel?

You magnetize what you are being. You give a smile . . . you get a smile back. If you point fingers with anger, you will get anger in return. If you are obsessing about scarcity, you will continue to live in lack. If you focus on nurturing friends, you will enjoy more enriching relationships.

Cheri Davis is a fun, energetic, positive, and beautiful friend. We both share a vibrant and positive energy which is a rare and wonderful quality. No matter what is going on in the world, we have a magic ability to energize each other and make the day better simply by speaking. She once said to me, __usan, our low is most people's high._ Indeed. We will not always match the energies of others, and when theirs is lower than ours, that can be a very good thing!

What saps your energy and drains your strength? If it makes you feel bad on the inside, it will make those around you feel bad too! Don__ be the energy vampire whom people want to avoid.

Be in the Now Moment__on__ squander your energy on a past you can__ change or a future which has not yet happened.

Use positive affirmations to shift your mindset and re-train your brain for positivity.

Without even realizing it, we magnetize people, opportunities, and outcomes. Many people continue to attract dysfunctional folks who bring trauma, drama, crisis, and negativity and then wonder why they are so miserable. Be cognizant of how you__e being because it is most certainly attracting what you__e receiving.

Ask yourself and become more aware__re you . . . _ Speaking poorly of others in judgment, gossip, and intolerance?_ Looking for, dwelling on, and obsessing over the negative?_ Being grumpy, negative, and infecting others with your bad attitude or victim mentality?

The "Law of Attraction" simply states: __hat you think about, you bring about._ Whatever you focus on will expand and attract more of the same. Whatever you are putting out there is usually what you are getting back. So, if you don__ like what you__e getting, you__e got to change what you are giving.