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Was it you or I who stumbled first? It does not matter. The one of us who finds the strength to get up first, must help the other.

God is not to be blamed for your inability to fulfill your destiny

If many good things have not happened in your life, God is not to be blamed

A child is not to blame for being immersed in a certain environment and handed down complexes

No one is to blame because there is no one other than you. Nothing is to disrespect because there is nothing other than you.

The most judgmental people are often those who complain most about being judged. The ones not complaining will look as though they're the ones doing the judging.

In an extroverted society, the difference between an introvert and an extrovert is that an introvert is often unconsciously deemed guilty until proven innocent.

Later times have laid all the blame upon the Goths and Vandals, but, however unwilling the partizans of the Christian system may be to believe or to acknowledge it, it is nevertheless true, that the age of ignorance commenced with the Christian system.There was more knowledge in the world before that period, than for many centuries afterwards; and as to religious knowledge, the Christian system, as already said, was only another species of mythology; and the mythology to which it succeeded, was a corruption of an ancient system of t

We cultivate love when we allow our most vulnerable and powerful selves to be deeply seen and known, and when we honor the spiritual connection that grows from that offering with trust, respect, kindness and affection.Love is not something we give or get; it is something that we nurture and grow, a connection that can only be cultivated between two people when it exists within each one of them _ we can only love others as much as we love ourselves.Shame, blame, disrespect, betrayal, and the withholding of affection damage the roots from which love grows. Love can only survive these injuries if they are acknowledged, healed and rare.

You can turn every ugly and damaging drama into a genuine blessing by seeing it differently. No one is suffering on purpose. We learn to give up the pleasure we feel in self-righteously blaming others. Healing happens when we see things differently. The question is: do you want suffering or peace? It's that simple.

Forgiveness and Blame share an apartment, but not for long, because Blame can__ live with Forgiveness, and Forgiveness can__ live with Blame.

In some ways, we will always be different. In other ways, we will always be the same. There is always room to disagree and blame, just as there is always room to take a new perspective and empathize. Understanding is a choice.

Only love that continues to flow in the face of anger, blame, and indifference can be called love. All else is simply a transaction.

So often survivors have had their experiences denied, trivialized, or distorted. Writing is an important avenue for healing because it gives you the opportunity to define your own reality. You can say: This did happen to me. It was that bad. It was the fault & responsibility of the adult. I was__nd am__nnocent._ The Courage to Heal by Ellen Bass & Laura Davis

If the surprise outcome of the recent UK referendum - on whether to leave or remain in the European Union - teaches us anything, it is that supposedly worthy displays of democracy in action can actually do more harm than good. Witness a nation now more divided; an intergenerational schism in the making; both a governing and opposition party torn to shreds from the inside; infinitely more complex issues raised than satisfactory solutions provided. It begs the question 'Was it really all worth it' ?

We may place blame, give reasons, and even have excuses; but in the end, it is an act of cowardice to not follow your dreams.

In a sane, civil, intelligent and moral society, you don't blame poor people for being poor.

We can't blame children for occupying themselves with Facebook rather than playing in the mud. Our society doesn't put a priority on connecting with nature. In fact, too often we tell them it's dirty and dangerous.