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As most of us know, the proper attitude toward ourselves is called __ood self-esteem._ But self-esteem isan art. An art of balance. A balance between thinking too little of ourselves, and thinking too much ofourselves.The name for thinking too much of ourselves is __gotism._ So, how do we adopt the proper attitude toward our gifts__peaking of them honestly, humbly,gratefully__ithout sounding egotistical? Just this: the more you see your own gifts clearly, the more youmust pay attention to the gifts that others have. The more sensitive you become to how unusual you are, themore you must become sensitive to how unusual those around you are. The more you pay attention toyourself, the more you must pay attention to others. The more you ponder the mystery of You, the more youmust ponder the mystery of all those you encounter, every loved one, every friend, every acquaintance,every stranger.Self-esteem is an art. It is the art of balance. A balance between thinking too little of ourselves, andthinking too much of ourselves. But we can only think too much of ourselves if we lose sight of others.Look at yourself, but equally look at them__ith wonder.That is the proper attitude we all should set as our goal.
Richard N. Bolles What Color Is Your Parachute? 2012: A Practical Manual for Job-Hunters and Career-Changers
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As most of us know, the proper attitude toward ourselves is called __ood self-esteem._ But self-esteem isan art. An art of balance. A balance between thinking too little of ourselves, and thinking too much ofourselves.The name for thinking too much of ourselves is __gotism._ So, how do we adopt the proper attitude toward our gifts__peaking of them honestly, humbly,gratefully__ithout sounding egotistical? Just this: the more you see your own gifts clearly, the more youmust pay attention to the gifts that others have. The more sensitive you become to how unusual you are, themore you must become sensitive to how unusual those around you are. The more you pay attention toyourself, the more you must pay attention to others. The more you ponder the mystery of You, the more youmust ponder the mystery of all those you encounter, every loved one, every friend, every acquaintance,every stranger.Self-esteem is an art. It is the art of balance. A balance between thinking too little of ourselves, andthinking too much of ourselves. But we can only think too much of ourselves if we lose sight of others.Look at yourself, but equally look at them__ith wonder.That is the proper attitude we all should set as our goal.
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