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I recall Decimus instructing me while at work that wrong friends will make my heart yearn for sin more than it usually does. Compromises will be easier and wisdom will be replaced with folly. I just figured that they didn__ know him, and therefore were judging him. Plus, I told them that Erebus _was interested in becoming a Christian, and that was the basis of our friendship. My biggest mistake was when I told John that Jesus spent time with sinners far worse than Erebus. __h foolishness, you forget I was with Jesus when he was in the homes and company of sinners,_ John chided. __esus did not come to make friends, but to call sinners to repent. Do that long enough and let__ see how many friends you pick up_His visits were hardly a social call_He did not save any lost soul by living like that lost soul_until Erebus sees Christ in you, you are guilty of leading him astray as I__ afraid he is leading you astray...As I see it, friendships are grown when you are all going in the same direction, and can help, encourage and protect all involved. Friendships are not to be reckless, but constructive and purposeful where you are building each other up and improving each other__ character. If this isn__ that inner, guiding principle of all the friends you hold, then in what direction is it actually going, and what good will be derived from it? If friends are not making each other better, then they__e fulfilling the role of our spiritual enemy by tearing down what is good and ruining what had potential_
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I recall Decimus instructing me while at work that wrong friends will make my heart yearn for sin more than it usually does. Compromises will be easier and wisdom will be replaced with folly. I just figured that they didn__ know him, and therefore were judging him. Plus, I told them that Erebus _was interested in becoming a Christian, and that was the basis of our friendship. My biggest mistake was when I told John that Jesus spent time with sinners far worse than Erebus. __h foolishness, you forget I was with Jesus when he was in the homes and company of sinners,_ John chided. __esus did not come to make friends, but to call sinners to repent. Do that long enough and let__ see how many friends you pick up_His visits were hardly a social call_He did not save any lost soul by living like that lost soul_until Erebus sees Christ in you, you are guilty of leading him astray as I__ afraid he is leading you astray...As I see it, friendships are grown when you are all going in the same direction, and can help, encourage and protect all involved. Friendships are not to be reckless, but constructive and purposeful where you are building each other up and improving each other__ character. If this isn__ that inner, guiding principle of all the friends you hold, then in what direction is it actually going, and what good will be derived from it? If friends are not making each other better, then they__e fulfilling the role of our spiritual enemy by tearing down what is good and ruining what had potential_

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Those who cannot conceive Friendship as a substantive love but only as a disguise or elaboration of Eros betray the fact that they have never had a Friend. The rest of us know that though we can have erotic love and friendship for the same person yet in some ways nothing is less like a Friendship than a love-affair. Lovers are always talking to one another about their love; Friends hardly ever about their Friendship. Lovers are normally face to face, absorbed in each other; Friends, side by side, absorbed in some common interest. Above all, Eros (while it lasts) is necessarily between two only. But two, far from being the necessary number for Friendship, is not even the best. And the reason for this is important.... In each of my friends there is something that only some other friend can fully bring out. By myself I am not large enough to call the whole man into activity; I want other lights than my own to show all his facets... Hence true Friendship is the least jealous of loves. Two friends delight to be joined by a third, and three by a fourth, if only the newcomer is qualified to become a real friend. They can then say, as the blessed souls say in Dante, 'Here comes one who will augment our loves.' For in this love 'to divide is not to take away.

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