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This mannerism of what he'd seen of society struck Homer Wells quite forcefully; people, even nice people__ecause, surely, Wally was nice__ould say a host of critical things about someone to whom they would then be perfectly pleasant. At. St. Cloud's, criticism was plainer__nd harder, if not impossible, to conceal.
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This mannerism of what he'd seen of society struck Homer Wells quite forcefully; people, even nice people__ecause, surely, Wally was nice__ould say a host of critical things about someone to whom they would then be perfectly pleasant. At. St. Cloud's, criticism was plainer__nd harder, if not impossible, to conceal.
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The Cider House Rules

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The critical spirit rises up against itself and consumes its form. But instead of coming out of this process greater and purified, it devours itself in a kind of self-cannibalism and takes a morose pleasure in annihilating itself. Hyper-criticism eventuates in self-hatred, leaving behind it only ruins. A new dogma of demolition is born out of the rejection of dogmas. Thus we euro-americans are supposed to have only one obligation: endlessly atoning for what we have inflicted on other parts of humanity. How can we fail to see that this leads us to live off self-denunciation while taking a strange pride in being the worst? Self-denigration is all too clearly a form of indirect self-glorification. Evil can come only from us; other people are motivated by sympathy, good will, candor. This is the paternalism of the guilty conscience: seeing ourselves as the kings of infamy is still a way of staying on the crest of history.

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When an orphan is depressed," wrote Wilbur Larch, "he is attracted to telling lies. A lie is at least a vigorous enterprise, it keeps you on your toes by making you suddenly responsible for what happens because of it. You must be alert to lie, and stay alert to keep your lie a secret. Orphans are not the masters of their fates; they are the last to believe you if you tell them that other people are also not in charge of theirs. When you lie, it makes you feel in charge of your life. Telling lies is very seductive to orphans. I know," Dr. Larch wrote. "I know because I tell them, too. I love to lie. When you lie, you feel as if you have cheated fate--your own, and everybody else's.

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