Everything that God sends us is beautiful, even though we may not understand it - and we only need to give it some proper thought to see that what God gives is just sheer happiness; the suffering is what we add to it.
_ It was the knowing that there had been a happier time, a place of joy and peace and security, that made the sudden absence of it all so agonizing_ Not the agony of what was, but the agony of what was no longer; this was the source of all life__ pain--not the fear of a hell to come, but rather the knowledge of an Eden that is no more. Hell isn't the punishment_ Eden was.
Hope: A Tragedy
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_ It was the knowing that there had been a happier time, a place of joy and peace and security, that made the sudden absence of it all so agonizing_ Not the agony of what was, but the agony of what was no longer; this was the source of all life__ pain--not the fear of a hell to come, but rather the knowledge of an Eden that is no more. Hell isn't the punishment_ Eden was.
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When life gives you pain, accept it. When life gives you happiness, reject it.
If you have done something meritorious, you experience pleasure and happiness; if wrong things, suffering. A happy or unhappy life is your own creation. Nobody else is responsible. If you remember this, you won__ find fault with anybody. You are your own best friend as well as your worst enemy. (99)
Suffering sucks. Don't do it. Go home and love your wife. Go home and love yourself. Go homeand base your happiness on one thing and one thing only: freedom. Choose freedom, not suffering. Create a life of freedom, not wanting. Have some really good coffee and listen to the red-winged blackbirds in the marsh. Ignore the mosquitoes.