Stephanie Lahart

Black Girls_ Until you get enough of what you__e going through, no matter what advice a person gives you, you__l continue to go through the same thing. Constant arguing. Constant fighting. Constant lies. Constant disappointments. Constant emotional rollercoaster. Constant heartbreak. Constant headaches. Constant threats. Constantly fighting for his attention and love. Constantly looking through his phone. Constantly sneaking through his personal belongings. Constantly arguing and/or fighting with other women over who__ supposed to be YOUR mate. Secretly checking up on him due to a lack of trust. Listen, NOBODY is worth your inner peace! What I__e listed above is NOT a relationship. It__ a toxic mess. So, what are you going to do?

Women Empowerment Reminder of The Day. Always respect yourself as a woman. You attract what you are, so be very mindful of how you__e representing yourself. If you want respect, you must first learn how to respect yourself, first. Attracting negative attention is never a good thing. Be a woman of substance! Be a woman that both women and men respect, admire, and look up to. Don__ disrespect yourself by lowering your standards and accepting just anything that comes your way. It__ okay to be single! If you want a relationship of substance, you can__ keep entertaining people and things that mean you no good. Think about it! It__ all up to you.

Being Uniquely YOU is the New Perfect.

No longer will I doubt my abilities...I will give myself a chance.

Are You Listening Attentively? There__ so much power in listening! I challenge you to listen more. Really pay attention to what people are saying. What are they REALLY talking about? Many times we overlook and/or make excuses for people__ conversations. Don__ allow people to dump garbage in your spirit. What we listen to can have a negative effect on what, and how, we think. Be choosy about the relationships you entertain. Surround yourself with people that bring out the best in you. People that are positive, inspiring, and genuine. Remember: Value your time! Don__ waste it on dead-end and/or fake relationships.

There__ not a single good thing about fear. Fear is a habitual liar and a destroyer of a purpose-filled life. Don__ entertain fear. You__e got to protect your dreams, goals, and the desires of your heart. Be brave in all things!

Love from a genuine place, but don__ lose yourself trying to change someone that has clearly shown you their true character and intentions. Know your worth! Your first priority should be YOU, always. Love shouldn__ be complicated, so don__ willingly compromise yourself with unnecessary hurt, pain, and disappointment. Have confidence in yourself! Protect your heart! Your love is valuable and so are you! Save your love for someone who truly deserves it, appreciates it, and wants it.

I__ Power Because LOVE is Power.

Redheads. We__e a Limited Edition of Fascination. A Unique & Rare Blend of Awesomeness.

SHE Can. SHE Does. SHE Wins.

Magical since Birth.

Most females are dissatisfied with how they look and battle with countless insecurities, not realizing that you look most beautiful when you think you don__. I wish that women and girls all over the world knew just how uniquely beautiful that we ALL are. Loving yourself for who YOU are is empowering! There__ great freedom in being unbothered by other people__ opinion of you.

Never stop pushing for what you want! If something is truly important to you, stay diligent and find a way. Depending on whom you ask, the answer may be different. Never settle for the first answer! Do your own research, ask different people, go above other people__ head if you have to. Sometimes it__ necessary to push the envelope. Some people will purposely give you the wrong answer to try to stop you and/or hold you back. This, unfortunately, is a reality. Some people__ intentions are all wrong. Be mindful that not everyone will have your best interest at heart.

I am Stephanie Lahart! An intelligent, empowered, and confident Black Queen. Purposely Fearless!

You won__ accomplish or reach your greatest potential in life if your main focus is on what other people think of you. No matter how great you are, some people will form their own negative opinions of you. Don__ give your haters your time or energy! People that are negative, jealous, and envious of you aren__ worth your future. Go after your dreams with purpose and unwavering belief!

There__ nothing typical about Genuine Love. To be loved authentically is to be blessed beyond measure. Only a fool would take advantage of something that so many people yearn for.

A life filled with excuses is defeated, unproductive, and miserable.

Some people take loyalty way too far. I have boundaries when it comes to loyalty. Yes, I__ loyal, but not to a fault. I cannot and will not compromise myself for other people__ senseless behavior. I have common sense, a great deal of wisdom, and I value my life. Loyalty shouldn__ cost you your integrity, freedom, or your life. Think!