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Yes, she fears the cuffs, the cross and the whip, but she will get past this. Such problems, even with time, do not go away on their own. They must be addressed.André Chevalier

Pleasure, pleasure, pleasure! Always your goal is pleasure. Pain, yes of course! Yet pain must only be used as a means to add to your sub's sensation of pleasure. To do otherwise is un péché noir - a black sin. Such will tarnish the soul. André Chevalier

BDSM is like visiting a kinky Amusement Park. Once you pay the entry fee, you hop on an erotic roller coaster of deviant self-discovery. Although I have the threat of pain before me, I__ not even close to wanting to get off of this ride. It__ such a fucking thrill. Or is that a thrilling fuck? Whatever. Either way, it__ as hot as hell.

Some truths can be only be found when one looks with the heart, not the eyes._ _ André Chevalier

A person tends to believe whatever is repeated over and over, whether it is true or not.

When you say, __omen are untrustworthy bitches. They lie and cheat and will nail anything that moves._ Do you know what I hear from your lips? Listen now, for I shall tell you. I hear you speak these words: 'I am an untrustworthy bastard. I lie and cheat and nail anything that moves.' André Chevalier

Behave," Kurt said, and slapped her buttocks. "Didn't I tell you to be still? Your job is to focus on my will and let me use your body. It's here for my pleasure, remember?

Like icebergs, people normally expose only a small part of themselves, and generally just the part they wish to show.

Facing one__ past can be a perilous activity. For the client, joy must exceed misery. Personal successes must far outweigh losses. Pleasure must exceed pain. Always. Always. To do otherwise is a failure of the counselor._ André Chevalier

The patterns learned as a child, repeat as an adult. Those with an abusive childhood are very often oh-so blind to this inescapable truth._ André Chevalier

Strange how mean words can return to ones thoughts, years after they__e been callously thrown at you. They replay in your mind, spiking a sense of remembered pain. Nasty name calling can be an ugly memory that stabs unexpectedly__ot unlike a nightmare where you wake up crying. Sticks and stones, may break your bones__et, cruel names can hurt you.

Denial can be a most useful, temporary shield. Unfortunately, such flimsy armor will not last a lifetime. It is best to face your past, and do so quickly, before your past returns to face you.__ André Chevalier

Abuse is a parasite that feeds off hate and shame, growing in size and strength with silence.

What has been done to you is one thing. Yet to really suffer, to truly be burdened with guilt and shame, such pain always begins not with what has been done to you__ut with what you have done. André Chevalier

Men? They are simple creatures. Is there something wrong with your man? Feed him, and take him to your bed. Et Voila! All problems, they disappear. But if something is wrong with the woman? Je suis désolé. Women need to talk._ André Chevalier

In life I would much prefer to be sinned upon than the sinner. It is easier, vous comprenez? With the clear conscience one sleeps very well. The sinner may deny it_ but in his heart he knows. He does not deserve to be happy.

The actions and emotional responses of others are not your responsibility. You cannot rescue people from themselves. This is for them to do. _ André Chevalier

The "Fatal Female Flaw." It's when ordinarily sensible women fall madly in love with an unattainable man who can't or won't love them back. I also call it the Triple Fucked Factor.Rosslyn