Derric Yuh Ndim

Your self-esteem and emotional strength relies solely onhow you think and how you see things around you.

How you define an event produces emotionand determines how you feel going forward

A client of mine once joked, __f youremployer likes you, the rest is history, the raise and everythingelse will come._ That intangible attitude in the workplace is whatsets apart those who get promoted and those who don__.

Our perceptions of reality are only a relationship to what is actually out there. Perceptions are influenced by context, by previous life experience, and by our tendency to seek outevidence to confirm our expectations. This drive to confirm, asargued by social physiologists, results in what is known as self fulfilling prophecy.

All pain, pleasure and self-limitation either originate in theconscious mind or is accepted uncritically from an outside source.

our tomorrow isshaped by the choices we make today, consciously or unconsciously

we are entitled to a great life _ that somehow, somewhere, someone (certainly not us) is responsible for filling our lives with continuous happiness, exciting career options, nurturingfamily time, and blissful personal relationships simply becausewe exist. But the real truth _ and the one lesson that all thesuccess principles I have learnt are based on _ is that there is onlyone person responsible for the quality of the life you live. Thatperson is you.

How we feel (emotions) determines what we do (our actions/behavior) which directly determines the results manifested inour life.