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If your church is not going to support the committed same-sex relationships of LGBT congregants, be honest about that. Bait-and-switch is deceptively un-Christ-like and serves to push gay and transgender believers farther away each time the deception happens.
Kathy Baldock Walking the Bridgeless Canyon: Repairing the Breach Between the Church and the LGBT Community
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If your church is not going to support the committed same-sex relationships of LGBT congregants, be honest about that. Bait-and-switch is deceptively un-Christ-like and serves to push gay and transgender believers farther away each time the deception happens.
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Kathy Baldock

Walking the Bridgeless Canyon: Repairing the Breach Between the Church and the LGBT Community

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