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Don__ be so hard on yourself, You__e doing the same thing, trying to reconcile all the moms that Mom ever was - The one you wanted, the one she was when you needed her and she was there, the one she was when she didn__ understand. Most of us don__ live our lives with one, integrated self that meets the world, we__e a whole bunch of selves. When someone dies, they all integrate into the soul - the essence of who we are, beyond the different faces we wear throughout our lives. You__e just hating the selves you__e always hated, and loving the ones you__e always loved. It__ bound to mess you up.
Christopher Moore A Dirty Job
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Don__ be so hard on yourself, You__e doing the same thing, trying to reconcile all the moms that Mom ever was - The one you wanted, the one she was when you needed her and she was there, the one she was when she didn__ understand. Most of us don__ live our lives with one, integrated self that meets the world, we__e a whole bunch of selves. When someone dies, they all integrate into the soul - the essence of who we are, beyond the different faces we wear throughout our lives. You__e just hating the selves you__e always hated, and loving the ones you__e always loved. It__ bound to mess you up.

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