Whatever one does, someone is always happy...then again, someone else is not pleased
Before entering into any kind of intimate relationships, whether friendship, familial re-connection, or romance, the idea of __eeding_ or __eing needed_ must be eliminated. It's harmful to me and others. Need is no kind of foundation for anything. Rather, I choose to be wanted. __ant_ is a deliberate choice. Wanting is not based in fear or ego (which are one in the same, I believe). Want comes from recognition of someone else's goodness and loving them for it. Being wanted is unconditional. It does not require emotional games be played, it does not require reparations be made or obligations be met. Being wanted is good, in and of itself.
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Before entering into any kind of intimate relationships, whether friendship, familial re-connection, or romance, the idea of __eeding_ or __eing needed_ must be eliminated. It's harmful to me and others. Need is no kind of foundation for anything. Rather, I choose to be wanted. __ant_ is a deliberate choice. Wanting is not based in fear or ego (which are one in the same, I believe). Want comes from recognition of someone else's goodness and loving them for it. Being wanted is unconditional. It does not require emotional games be played, it does not require reparations be made or obligations be met. Being wanted is good, in and of itself.
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