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Try not to take it personally if the mother criticizes you or tells you to stop doing something that you expected to be helpful. Just say, __orry,_ and stop doing it. Don__ try to explain why you did it or express frustration with her. She is really saying that labor is so difficult right now that nothing helps. You are the safest person for her to lash out at. Later, she will probably apologize.
Penny Simkin The Birth Partner: A Complete Guide to Childbirth for Dads, Doulas, and All Other Labor Companions
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Try not to take it personally if the mother criticizes you or tells you to stop doing something that you expected to be helpful. Just say, __orry,_ and stop doing it. Don__ try to explain why you did it or express frustration with her. She is really saying that labor is so difficult right now that nothing helps. You are the safest person for her to lash out at. Later, she will probably apologize.
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The Birth Partner: A Complete Guide to Childbirth for Dads, Doulas, and All Other Labor Companions

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