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Any fool can criticize, complain, and condemn__nd most fools do. But it takes character and self-control to be understanding and forgiving.
Dale Carnegie How to Win Friends and Influence People
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Any fool can criticize, complain, and condemn__nd most fools do. But it takes character and self-control to be understanding and forgiving.
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How to Win Friends and Influence People

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