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Music is a form that tends to give shape to rules, social mores, social attitudes, feelings__t does this in a very beautiful, fluid way. To me the issue of form and formlessness is most strong in the theme of mortality versus a human wish for immortality of a sort. Take, for example, the definition of beauty in fashion. Remember what Alison says at the beginning? She says when she was young she didn__ know what beautiful was. She looked at this woman who everyone was saying was beautiful and she didn__ even know what they were talking about. I experienced that when I was a child. If I loved someone I thought they were really beautiful. And then eventually, I began to get it, the social concept of beauty. Not that I think beautiful is completely imaginary, but beauty is so wide ranging and fluid. Yet there__ a need to say: __his is what it is, and it__ not changing; we__e taking a picture of it to hold it still._ It__ like an impulse to put up a building meant to last forever. An urge to grab and hold something in place when nothing human can be grabbed and held in place. We come into these physical bodies . . . whatever we are takes this shape that is so particular and distinct__yes, nose, mouth__nd then it gradually begins to disintegrate. Eventually it__ going to dissolve completely. It__ a huge problem for people; we can understand it, but it breaks our hearts. And so we__e constantly trying to pin something down or leave a trace that will last forever. __nd this is the only immortality you and I may share, my Lolita . . ._ What other immortality will anyone share?
Mary Gaitskill
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Music is a form that tends to give shape to rules, social mores, social attitudes, feelings__t does this in a very beautiful, fluid way. To me the issue of form and formlessness is most strong in the theme of mortality versus a human wish for immortality of a sort. Take, for example, the definition of beauty in fashion. Remember what Alison says at the beginning? She says when she was young she didn__ know what beautiful was. She looked at this woman who everyone was saying was beautiful and she didn__ even know what they were talking about. I experienced that when I was a child. If I loved someone I thought they were really beautiful. And then eventually, I began to get it, the social concept of beauty. Not that I think beautiful is completely imaginary, but beauty is so wide ranging and fluid. Yet there__ a need to say: __his is what it is, and it__ not changing; we__e taking a picture of it to hold it still._ It__ like an impulse to put up a building meant to last forever. An urge to grab and hold something in place when nothing human can be grabbed and held in place. We come into these physical bodies . . . whatever we are takes this shape that is so particular and distinct__yes, nose, mouth__nd then it gradually begins to disintegrate. Eventually it__ going to dissolve completely. It__ a huge problem for people; we can understand it, but it breaks our hearts. And so we__e constantly trying to pin something down or leave a trace that will last forever. __nd this is the only immortality you and I may share, my Lolita . . ._ What other immortality will anyone share?

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